A Chinese Man Finds His Long-Lost Parents After 33 Years — While in Prison

A Chinese Man Finds His Long-Lost Parents After 33 Years — While in Prison

For 33 years, parents in China had no idea what had become of their kidnapped son. A DNA match finally revealed the truth: he was alive, but the family’s search led them to a place they never expected. The man they had been looking for since he disappeared at age four was now 37 years old and serving time in a prison in Zhenjiang. The Wei family, from Sichuan province, spent more than three decades searching for their son after human traffickers took him when he was just a child.

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They registered their DNA profiles in China’s national database, a system designed to help families locate missing relatives. Year after year, there was no match. Meanwhile, the boy they were searching for grew up far from his family, unaware of the people who had spent decades looking for him. By the time authorities identified him, the missing child was a grown man.

Reports refer to him by the pseudonym Mingdong to protect his identity. Court and prison records show that Mingdong was involved in several minor offenses and was incarcerated four times. The breakthrough came after he entered a prison in Zhenjiang. As part of the admission process, authorities collected a DNA sample in April.

The sample was compared against the national database and matched records linked to the Wei family. After 33 years, his parents finally learned that their missing son was alive. But the circumstances were difficult to process. He was no longer the four-year-old boy they had lost.

He was an adult who had lived a life they knew nothing about. On November 20, Mingdong’s parents and his two older sisters traveled to the prison in Zhenjiang. There, after more than three decades of separation, the family met face to face for the first time since his disappearance. The reunion took place behind prison walls.

During the meeting, Mingdong told his family that he now had a home to return to. He also promised that after completing his sentence, he would turn his life around. His relatives told him they would wait for him to come home. The story drew widespread attention online, with many commenters discussing the potential long-term effects of child trafficking.

Some suggested that being separated from his family at such a young age may have contributed to the difficulties he faced later in life. Others focused on the importance of family care and guidance during childhood. For the Wei family, however, the most important truth was that their missing son had finally been found. The reunion did not erase the years that had passed.

Mingdong grew up away from the family that never stopped looking for him. His parents missed decades of his life, and his sisters never had the chance to grow up alongside their younger brother. His criminal record became part of his story, but the DNA match answered the question the family had carried for 33 years: Where was their son? In this case, the answer came from a prison in Zhenjiang.

The reunion also highlighted the continuing problem of human trafficking in China. According to China’s National Bureau of Statistics, 598 cases related to the trafficking of women and children were recorded nationwide between 2010 and 2021. China established its national DNA database in 2009 to help police identify missing people and reconnect them with relatives. In 2021, authorities launched a nationwide campaign to reunite families and set up missing-persons search offices at police stations across the country.

For families who have spent years searching for missing relatives, DNA testing can provide an answer when traditional searches fail. That is what happened for the Wei family. After 33 years, they finally learned where their son was. He was alive, living far from them, and when they finally met again, it was behind prison walls.

Still, Mingdong told his family he now had somewhere to return to. And they told him they would be waiting.