The Royal Who Chose To Be Nobody. His Father’s Secret Is Why: James Ogilvy

The Royal Who Chose To Be Nobody. His Father's Secret Is Why: James Ogilvy

James Ogilvy was born on 29 February 1964 at Thatched House Lodge, on the edge of Richmond Park. He came into the world a few dozen places from the British throne, a second cousin of the present king, and he has spent his life making sure almost no one knows it.

His mother was Princess Alexandra of Kent, a granddaughter of King George V and a first cousin of Queen Elizabeth II. His father was Angus Ogilvy, a Scottish businessman from an old aristocratic family. By the plain arithmetic of blood, James sits 59th in the line of succession.

He answers to plain mister. He carries no title, draws nothing from the crown, and works instead with a camera and a small magazine of his own. He founded Luxury Briefing in 1996 and still publishes and edits it. He lives largely in Scotland, well away from the London orbit.

The absence of a title was not his decision. It was made for him a full generation before his birth, by his father, in the spring of 1963.

Angus Ogilvy was born on 14 September 1928, the second son of the 12th Earl of Airlie. A second son in the British aristocracy is a man born beside the inheritance rather than into it. So Angus made his own way. He was schooled at Eton, went up to Trinity College, Oxford, and then went into the City.

He joined the Drayton Group and became a director in 1956. At the height of his career, he sat on the boards of more than 50 companies at once. He had built a life of genuine weight in British business entirely on his own account.

On 24 April 1963, he married Princess Alexandra at Westminster Abbey. It was a national event, watched by an estimated 200 million people around the world. A princess of the blood marrying her Scottish businessman before the largest crowd that had ever watched a British wedding.

By every ordinary expectation, a title should have followed. When a commoner of standing marries a princess, the crown has a long habit of smoothing the difference away with a peerage. The queen was ready to make him an earl.

Angus Ogilvy turned it down.

He would not be made an earl. He would not take a grand apartment in a royal palace. He wanted, as nearly as a man married to a princess could manage it, to go on being an ordinary working man with an ordinary working name.

The couple took a lease instead. They made their home at Thatched House Lodge, a handsome but modest house inside Richmond Park. It was a private residence rather than a palace.

The refusal had one consequence that reached beyond Angus himself. Because he took no peerage, his children were born with no titles at all. James Ogilvy is a commoner, not by his own decision, but by his father’s.

The press of 1963 treated the refusal as the most attractive kind of humility. The modesty cost him nothing and won him a good deal. By the middle of that decade, Angus Ogilvy stood at a peak that a second son of a Scottish earl could scarcely have dreamed of.

He did not know it was the summit. The ground that would give way beneath him was a company he had already joined, and a man he was about to bring in to run it.

The company was Lonrho, a name stitched together from the words London and Rhodesia. It had begun life as the London and Rhodesia Mining and Land Company, a modest colonial concern with interests in Southern Africa. Angus took a seat on its board in the early 1960s.

The man he helped bring in to run it was Roland Walter Rowland, known to the world as Tiny. Rowland was an outsider, a self-made operator of restless ambition. Under his command, Lonrho became an engine of expansion, driving hard across the African continent.

For a run of good years, the decision to bring in the outsider looked like the cleverest thing any of them had ever done. But an engine that runs that hard runs hot. The company was carrying itself into places that a man married to a princess should never have been within sight of.

In 1965, a white minority government in Rhodesia declared itself free of Britain. On 11 November 1965, it issued what became known as the Unilateral Declaration of Independence. Britain led the world in punishing it. Trade with Rhodesia was banned, and sanctions were imposed and then screwed tighter.

That was the wall that Lonrho, half-named for the very country now under sanction, had to reckon with. The great question that would eventually bring inspectors to its door was how much of its African business was being done across that forbidden line.

On its board, for the best part of a decade, sat the husband of Princess Alexandra. A contemporary account of the affair caught the official anxiety exactly. The view taken in the Foreign Office, it was said, was that sanctions busting was all very well for oil companies and banks, but it was not very wise where a member of the royal family was concerned.

By 1973, the men who ran Lonrho had turned on one another, and the fight spilled out of the boardroom and into open court. A faction among the directors moved to remove Rowland. He fought back with everything he had.

What had begun as a private struggle became a war, and the war ended up before a judge. The private workings of the company were levered up into the light. It emerged that Rowland had been the beneficiary of financial arrangements set up for him through agreements signed in the Bahamas.

For Angus Ogilvy, sitting on that board through the very years these arrangements were being made, the exposure was calamitous. He was a director of a company whose secret workings were now the daily talk of the City. The careful separation he had built between his private life and the roar of public affairs was collapsing.

On 15 May 1973, the prime minister rose in the House of Commons and gave the whole affair a name that stuck to it forever. Edward Heath reached for a phrase that would outlive nearly everything else he ever said in office. This, he told the House, was the unpleasant and unacceptable face of capitalism.

Two days later, on 17 May 1973, Angus Ogilvy resigned from the board of Lonrho. It was the act of a man trying to put distance between himself and a fire that was plainly out of control. But a resignation in the middle of a public scandal is a difficult and double-edged thing.

The charge that would eventually be laid against him was never that he schemed and never that he stole. It was that he had sat there, that he had held a director’s chair with a director’s duties through years in which things were done at that company that a diligent director ought to have questioned and did not.

The government did not let the matter drop. It sent inspectors to open the company’s accounts to the light. The inquiry stretched out across the middle of the 1970s, an open question hanging over his name and through him over the family he had married into.

On 7 July 1976, the report landed. The Department of Trade inspectors published their findings on Lonrho. Buried in its careful official prose was the passage that would define the rest of Angus Ogilvy’s life.

His conduct as a director, the inspectors found, had been negligent. Not merely negligent, but negligent to an extent that merited severe censure.

Not fraud. Not theft. Not conspiracy. Negligence meriting severe censure.

The inspectors did not find that Angus Ogilvy had personally broken sanctions. They did not find that he had lined his own pockets or lied or schemed. The charge was that he had held a position of trust and had not discharged it as he should.

But the word censure, once it is written into a government report beside a man’s name, does not trouble itself with fine distinctions in the mind of the public. To be severely censured by inspectors of the crown is to be branded.

Within days of the report, Angus Ogilvy offered to give up all 16 of his other city directorships. He did not cling on. He offered his resignation from every remaining board he sat on, 16 companies in a single stroke.

Some of the companies refused the offer and kept him on. But the meaning of the gesture did not depend on whether every resignation was accepted. He was withdrawing from the City, accepting in the most concrete way available to him that the working life was finished.

There is one small detail that captures how completely he wished the whole episode had never been. In his own entry in Who’s Who, there was no mention at all of his long association with Lonrho. A decade of his working life was simply absent, edited out of the story he told about himself.

In 1978, the director of public prosecutions confirmed that there would be no criminal proceedings arising from the Lonrho affair as it touched Angus Ogilvy. In the plainest legal terms, he was cleared.

But a clearance of that kind could not reach the wound that had actually been made. The director of public prosecutions was answering a question about crime, and crime had never been the charge. Nobody had said Angus Ogilvy was a criminal. The inspectors had said he was negligent.

The law cleared him of the thing he had never been accused of. The thing he had been accused of stood exactly where it was.

Princess Alexandra carried the family’s public weight almost alone through those years. At her busiest, she carried out something on the order of 120 engagements a year. She was one of the hardest working members of the entire royal family.

Angus stayed largely in the background. He gave himself to charitable work, and in particular to the cause of young people trying to make their own start in the world. He lent his effort to conservation and to the care of the natural world.

In 1988, he was made a knight commander of the Royal Victorian Order, becoming Sir Angus Ogilvy. It was an honor in the personal gift of the queen, recognizing precisely the service he had given rather than any rank he held. Later, in the mid-1990s, he was admitted to the Privy Council.

And yet it would be too neat to say that the honors undid the censure, because they did not. He had rebuilt. He had not been made whole.

James Ogilvy grew up inside that story. He was a child of nine when the prime minister named the affair in the Commons, a boy of 12 when the report brought down its censure, a young man of 14 when the director of public prosecutions at last declared there would be no charge.

He grew up entirely inside the weather of his father’s disgrace. In a home where one parent went out to the applause of the country, and the other stayed back under a cloud that the country had put there.

When his own turn came to decide how much of the royal world he wanted for himself, he quietly turned away from all of it.

He was schooled at Eton, as his father had been. He read the history of art at the University of St Andrews. He took a business degree at Cranfield. He spent time in the City with the stockbroking firm of Barclays de Zoete Wedd.

In 1996, he founded Luxury Briefing, a subscription magazine covering the luxury goods trade, and became its publisher and editor. Alongside it, he built a working life as a photographer. He settled largely in Scotland.

On 30 July 1988, he married Julia Rollinson at the parish church in Saffron Walden in Essex. A proper wedding, but not a state occasion. The couple had two children, a daughter Flora born in 1994, and a son Alexander born in 1996.

James raised them as he had been raised, without titles and without royal duties. Whatever the throne might technically have made available to a man 59th in its line, he asked none of it for himself and none of it for his children.

His sister Marina, born in 1966, faced the same question and answered it in a different key. At the end of the 1980s, her life became for a season a tabloid story when she was expecting a child before her marriage to the photographer Paul Moat, and a painful and very public estrangement from her parents played out in the newspapers.

Where James left the royal world without a ripple, Marina’s departure from its conventions was loud, reported, and hard.

James chose the shelter, and he chose it without drama and without regret. He is the living proof that a person can be born a few dozen places from the throne and construct a life in which the throne is very nearly irrelevant.

Among the more notable things ever reported about him is the time in 1997 when he was bitten by a shark while swimming off the coast of Florida and lived to tell the story. It is the kind of thing that happens to ordinary people on ordinary holidays.

When Angus Ogilvy died on 26 December 2004, aged 76, he left his son a strange inheritance. Not a title, but the absence of one.

He had been diagnosed with cancer, and after months of illness, he died at Kingston Hospital. He was laid to rest in the royal burial ground at Frogmore. He and Alexandra had been married for 41 years.

Princess Alexandra lived on into a long and honored old age. In the spring of 2013, she cut back her program after being diagnosed with a rheumatic condition. By 2024 she was using a wheelchair on the rare occasions she still appeared.

The deeper truth beneath the whole story is this. The father’s secret, the thing that explains why the son chose to be nobody, was never a hidden crime. There was no crime. Only a censure for what a man failed to see.

The real secret is quieter and sadder. It is that a man’s public ruin can become his child’s private freedom. The disgrace which shut Angus Ogilvy out of the light also drew the curtains that let his son live unwatched.

James Ogilvy is nobody in the royal sense because his father wished so hard to be nobody and was not allowed to be. The son is living the life the father wanted. He is living it because the father fell.

What Edward Heath called the unpleasant and unacceptable face of capitalism ended one man’s career and shadowed his family for years. It also, by a route no one could have drawn at the time, handed that man’s son a life entirely his own.

The father was censured and never quite forgiven and never quite restored. The son was set free and does not seem to have looked back.